Something people unconsciously tend to do
(based on my personal experience)
It is still difficult to explain and
understand the human mind. Maybe some people who have a good knowledge about
human physics or psychology (mentality) could try to say ‘I know you know or I
know I know. I would like to say ‘you don’t’.
People feel happy, unhappy or sometimes
uncomfortable. It is fine when they are happy, but on the other hand, when they
are unhappy, it completely changes the atmosphere around them. Actually, it is
fine if only two people know and share a problem because the person with the
problem tends to rely on the other. Looking in the case of three or more
people.
What I really
want to recommend coping with such a problem is that…
Rule no.1: Do not criticise or show no
interest if one of you have a problem.
Rule no.2: Do not assume “I know I know”
Rule no.3: Do not imply “I am angry or sad”
(you are not a kid any more)
Rule no.4: Just think about what the other
is going through and try to find a possible solution to the problem
Ps. focus on the lyrics of Michael Jackson’s
song “You are not alone”. It seems you are alone, I am alone as well. People need
friends, relationships with etiquettes, manners, love, faithfulness and
gratefulness to each other.
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